Earl C. Tingey

April 2004
The Church does not modify standards of morality by adapting to changing customs or to the mores of the societies in which we live.
President Gordon B. Hinckley tells of an experience he had as a boy lying in the bed of an old farm wagon at night with his brother Sherman. They "looked at the myriads of stars in the heavens, and took turns picking out familiar stars and tracing the Big Dipper, the handle and the cup, to find the North Star." President Hinckley said he was fascinated by the North Star. Regardless of the earth's rotation, the North Star maintained its position in the heavens and never moved. He said: "I recognized it as a constant in the midst of change. It was something that could always be counted on, something that was dependable, an anchor in what otherwise appeared to be a moving and unstable firmament."
Noting the unwavering, absolute position of the North Star, one writer told the contrasting story of a young boy who became lost on a camping trip. When his father finally found him, his father asked if he had remembered to pick out something in the landscape that he could always see. This, his father said, would have helped him to fix a steady position. The boy said, "I did."
"What was it?" the father asked.
"That rabbit over there," the boy said.
Young men of the Aaronic Priesthood, fix your gaze on the unchanging standards of the gospel and not on the moving rabbit.
A dozen years ago, in one of the countries of Africa, we had faithful members of the Church who had been meeting in their homes for several years. I went to that country to see if we could receive permission from the government to bring in missionaries and establish the Church. I met with a high-ranking government minister. He gave me 20 minutes to explain our position.
When I finished he said, "I do not see where anything you have told me is any different from what is currently available in our country. I see no reason to approve your request to bring missionaries into our country."
He stood up to usher me out of his office. I was panic-stricken. I had failed. In a moment our meeting would be over. What could I do? I offered a silent prayer.
Then I had an inspired thought. I said to the minister, "Sir, if you will give me five more minutes, I would like to share one other thought with you. Then I will leave." He kindly consented.
I reached for my wallet and removed this small For the Strength of Youth booklet, which I have always carried.
I said, "This is a little booklet of standards we give all of the youth in our Church."
I then read some of the standards I have mentioned tonight. When I finished he said, "You mean to tell me you expect the youth of your church to live these standards?"
"Yes," I replied, "and they do."
"That is amazing," he said. "Could you send me some of these booklets so that I could distribute them to the youth of my church?"
I replied, "Yes," and I did.
Several months later we received official approval from the government of that country to come and establish the Church.