BENJAMIN - If it was absolutely necessary (as in there were no worthy priesthood holders available), could a woman give someone a blessing?
JOEL - It is proper for a woman to give a blessing through
her faith, but she can not call on any priesthood
power or authority in doing so. According to President
Joseph Fielding Smith:
"The Lord has given us directions in matters of this
kind; we are to call in the elders, and they are to
anoint with oil on the head and bless by the laying on
of hands. The Church teaches that a woman may lay on
hands upon the head of a sick child and ask the Lord
to bless it, in the case when those holding
the priesthood cannot be present.
A man might under such conditions invite his wife to
lay on hands with him in blessing their sick child.
This would be merely to exercise her faith and not be,
cause of any inherent right to lay on hands. A woman
would have no authority to anoint or seal a blessing,
and where elders can be called in, that would be the
proper way to have an administration performed.
(Doctrines of Salvation)
And President Joseph Fielding Smith, quoting from his
father, said:
"Does a wife hold the priesthood with her husband, and
may she lay hands on the sick with him, with
authority? A wife does not hold the priesthood with
her husband, but she enjoys the benefits thereof with
him; and if she is requested to lay hands on the sick
with him, she may do so with perfect propriety."
When this is done the wife is adding her faith to the
administration of her husband. The wife would lay on
hands just as would a member of the Aaronic
Priesthood, or a faithful brother without the
Priesthood, she in this manner giving support by faith
to the ordinance performed by her husband. (Doctrines
of Salvation, comp. Bruce R. McConkie, 3 vols. [Salt
Lake City: Bookcraft, 1954-56], 3:177.)